Confession

My 2.5-year marriage is in trouble. My hubby yesterday decided that we should be sleeping in separate bed & do our own activities & not talking to each other for now & see what happens...
F***ng heartless, weak, poor man!!
To write about how this started will be a long time & i'm honestly sick of hearing me thinking & remembering about it and by writing, it'll only make it clear that there's no hope in us.
In short, our problem is like classic man & wife problem, he said, she said....and instead of falling into that group who can communicate their differences well, to compromise, to act based on love, to not keeping count of our mistakes, to see thing objectively....we fell into that group who keep fighting and cannot understand each other needs and keep hurting each other until that love we used to have fades away...(I wanted to say i understand his need & have improved but he doesn't...but again, maybe not, so for this, i will be fair and blame it on both of us). I admit that I'm not in love with him anymore like i used to but isn't that what happen on married couple...we have other love, other important thing...like kid. But i know for sure that I still need him, i still miss him while he's gone, i'm still waiting for him to finish his work & spend quality time with me...but him, i don't see him wanting me like that anymore, yet he said he need compasion, support, respect and he doesn't get it from me. And the problem continues...on and on.....
I'm not ready for divorce for many reason...but i also cannot save this marriage alone and it seems my hubby has given up and ready for separation...